【摘要】：精品学习网整理了很多男性都不知道如何与女性交谈。正因如此，这些男性终其一生都缺乏女人缘。下面的技巧会让你面对心仪的女性时从容自在，请看以下具体内容。
1. You should talk about “emotional” topics like childhood memories, future ambitions, or her passions. These conversation topics will open up her emotional floodgates.
1、你可以试着打感情牌。多谈谈童年的温馨回忆，对未来的雄心抱负或是让她兴奋的事物。这些话题会让她向你敞开她的情感大门。
2. Women want a guy who is not afraid to lead her. While talking to a woman take control of the conversation. Never wait for her to dictate what you’ll be talking about.
2、女人想要可以强力掌控她的男人。抓住谈话时的主动权，决不让她来决定你要说什么。
3. Pay attention to the non verbal cues a woman is giving you. If you’re standing too close to her, accidentally spitting when you talk, or making her feel uncomfortable in any way… she will send you hints. Pay attention to them.
3、注意她给你的任何隐藏暗示。如果你做些让她反感的行为，比如故意站的很靠近她，说话时吐着痰等等，她会向你暗示的，留意这些暗示。
4. Remember this motto “Fun not Funny.” Women are attracted to men who allow them to have fun. Don’t concentrate on having the funniest jokes. Concentrate on showing them the most excitement and enjoyment.
4、牢记“有趣而不滑稽”。女人喜欢那些幽默可以逗她们开心的男人。不要浪费时间在那些所谓滑稽的段子上。花点心思想想如何让她们兴奋和愉悦吧。
5. Tease women. One of the easiest ways to take a conversation to a fun and flirty level is to begin to tease women. Think back to your time on the playground. In the world of dating… what worked on the playground is effective all over again.
5、挑逗她。想让谈话变得轻浮有趣?最简单的方法就是去调戏她。想想小时候在操场上是如何和小女生玩的。在约会的世界里，这招同样事半功倍。
6. Get intimate with her. Women are turned on by men who are not afraid to take a conversation to a personal, intimate level.
6、聊点私密的。在女人眼里，那些敢去去谈论她个人私密的男人总是散发着无妨阻挡的性吸引力。
7. Use things like “cold reads” to turn women on. Women love to hear opinions about themselves. Tell her what you observe about her.
7、用你的冷读术让她兴奋。女人总是喜欢听别人对自己的看法。告诉她你独一无二的观察。
8. Avoid complimenting a woman too much. Women are turned off by men who come across as “needy.” If you are complimenting a woman too much she will think you’re trying to impress her. Which will have the opposite effect.
8、不要赞美她太多。那些看起来“饥不择食”的男人总是让女人大倒胃口。你赞美她太多只会让她轻视你。切忌。
9. If you want to know how to talk to women in a way that doesn’t bore them… Avoid asking too many “interview” style questions. Instead state your opinion about things.
9、如果你正在纠结如何避免引她厌烦...忘了那些会谈式的对话吧，多谈谈你的见解。
10. Remember: Statements over questions. Instead of saying “where did you grow up?” Say “You don’t look like you grew up around here.” This allows you to make observations about her and express your personality.
10、牢记：有见解的设问。如果你想问她在哪长大的，你可以这样问：“你看起来不像这带长大的?”有洞察力的你一定让她印象深刻。